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Generally speaking society thinks of heterosexuality as the "norm" (that is a relationship between a male and a female). If you don't fall into this category it can be very worrying or confusing, especially for young people who are still maturing physically and mentally.

 

These days society's attitude towards homosexuals and lesbians is more accepting and laws have changed to reflect this.  However, it is still possible to come across prejudice and hostility from some people

 

 

I'm not sure if I’m gay

Sexual feelings develop over time and it's common for young people to feel confused or anxious about their sexuality.

It’s not unusual to have a “crush” on someone of the same sex, but it doesn’t always mean that you are gay, it’s just part of growing up.

 

If you are gay, lesbian or bisexual - or think you might be - it may help to talk to someone about your feelings.  Call the gay/lesbian helpline on 0207 837 7324 (24-hour service) and speak to a member of staff who will be able to put you in touch with local groups.

 

 

Coming Out

Coming out as a gay or bisexual can be scary as you worry about how people will react, especially your family.   Only you know if the time is right for you, so be sure that you have accepted your sexuality yourself and feel confident to talk to others about it.  If you feel you need to speak to someone who has been through the experience themselves you should contact a support group.